Yes, it is my first trip there - went with a friend who has vacationed there, and another friend who has not. Your area is very very similar to ours - barrier island, mixed with local & out of towners, growing (new schools) & changing, and a destination for the area weddings.
We didn't get to sight see as much, as we really were there on a reconaissance mission for the wedding show. We were HIGHLY impressed with the whole weekend. If you're not involved, and you want to grow your wedding business, I'd highly recommend it - the air of co-operation was wonderful, the event was very very well done. We came home with our heads spinning with ideas.
We have been planning a similar road show event (driving tour) for a while, which was why we went in the first place - it's been a tough plan, but the Chamber is (finally ) on board w/promotion of the area for dest. weddings, so we're going to keep pushing forward. A rising tide floats all boats, right? I want to be on that rise.