a while back....
we reached a "crossroads" at this great discussion and banter site.
as with ANY forum, you are responsible for what you say, and post, and as in (for example) the garish and rude posts made by Peter Plumley (Peter1), as an example, made it clear, that the writer of any composition must be held accountable for their own words, whether written in anger, misjudgement, or retribution!!
George has the right idea....it's very easy to "accuse", and once done, hard to unravel, SO, it is my opinion that every poster here, should carefully consider their posts PRIOR to uploading them to this site!!
We have a great resource here, and it's without question, one of the most prolific florist sites available, and it DOES INDEED, express the true feelings and colours of ALL writers here, and each writer, becomes their own worst nightmare, should he/she chose to lash out in anger, and should he/she chose to do so, and the general consensus indicates a "cooling off" period for such writer, who's words are out of character, then such action "CAN" be taken to allow a cooling off period through temporary suspension of posting rights to this site.
IF a poster continues an aggressive approach, WITHOUT a direction, or a possible conclusion to the discussion, and the discussion leads to possible hurt feelings, or open dialogue "warfare" then the poster can be suspended.
We ALL yell, lash out, and want to be heard...but, "ALMOST" anything goes...NOT EVERYTHING...and this site, and it's admininstrators are VERY LIBERAL, and VERY ACCOMODATING.
The "edit" button is therefore hidden, and will remain so for the forseeable future.
AGAIN, think and write, as if the person you were speaking to, is standing in front of you....
Mike